Pre Separation & Pre Divorce Planning
Should I Stay or Should I Go?
You are seeking clarity around the future of the marriage. Marriage counseling, deciding if your spouse will change, or concerned about life after divorce. Figuring out this stage allows you move beyond indecision and take charge of your future.
Planning to Separate?
You have made the decision to separate and need practical guidance and a clear plan for what to do next. Need discreet, comprehensive pre-divorce education? Our course Untying The Knot: What You Need to Know Before Filing for Divorce is tailored to meet the needs of individuals at the preliminary stages of considering divorce. By engaging with our material, you will gain a comprehensive understanding of critical areas.
Managing the Initial Shock of Separation?
You have recently separated or are planning to. Or, your spouse has shared they want a divorce. You are looking for a proactive approach to handle the emotional overwhelm and prevent conflict from escalating.
When Contemplating Divorce But Hesitating, You May Grapple With A Multitude Of Questions
"Is this the right decision for me and my family?"
"Should I stay married for the sake of my children?"
"Am I prepared for the emotional and financial implications of divorce?"
"Will I be able to cope with the changes in my lifestyle and routine?"
"How will this impact our children?"
"Are there alternative solutions or avenues to explore before resorting to divorce?"
"What will our friends and family think?"
"How will divorce affect our social and professional networks?"
"Will I be able to navigate the legal process effectively?"
"What are the potential long-term consequences of divorce?"
"Can our relationship be salvaged through marriage counseling or therapy?"
These questions often reflect the complex considerations individuals face when contemplating divorce, contributing to the hesitation before taking definitive action.
There exists a considerable duration during which individuals inhabit a phase often colloquially referred to as "pre-divorce," enduring it for extensive periods before initiating formal steps. The decision to prolong this phase is nuanced and deeply personal, influenced by a myriad of factors.
Benefits of Planning Ahead
We Know Divorce Planning.
Irrespective of your current contemplations regarding divorce, it is essential to recognize that you are not navigating this journey alone. While divorce is an option, it is not inherently suitable for everyone. Our approach does not advocate for divorce nor presume that every individual reaching out to us is seeking or necessarily requires divorce. Engaging in a consultation with us is intended to furnish you with clarity, regardless of the decision you ultimately arrive at. Should you determine that divorce aligns with your needs, rest assured that we are committed to providing unwavering support throughout the entire process.
Many of our clients recognize the value of engaging our services during the preliminary stages of consideration, often referred to as the "pre-divorce" or contemplative phase, long before retaining legal representation and initiating formal divorce proceedings. We firmly advocate for thorough preparation as a cornerstone of achieving favorable outcomes. Proper preparation yields success.
Our scope of services extends well beyond conventional divorce coaching, encompassing a comprehensive array of support, navigation, strategy and execution. Divorce coaching is about 10% of what we do. Divorce Concierge International is staffed by Divorce Consultants and Strategists who are well-versed in law, divorce, finance, real estate, negotiation and more. Our founding partner is a licensed attorney whose role is distinct from that of a traditional divorce attorney and other specialists with profound expertise in divorce dynamics, processes, and the intricate nuances associated with this significant phase of life.
At Divorce Concierge International, our forte lies in divorce planning, a service that sets us apart. Collaborating with our team alongside your legal counsel proves highly advantageous for our clients, resulting in significant savings in time, finances, and stress. By leveraging our expertise, clients become notably more prepared for their legal proceedings, and we adeptly streamline every facet of the divorce process. Serving as your coach, advocate, personal assistant, strategist, divorce planner, partner, and confidant, we adapt to fulfill any role necessary to guide you through this challenging period. Our clients understand the significance of achieving a successful and fulfilling divorce outcome, and we are dedicated to helping them attain it.
You only get one chance to score your "win." Our DCI clients know what it means to divorce happily and successfully.
Considering Divorce?
Pre-Divorce / Pre-Separation Consultation
Contemplating the prospect of divorce often unleashes a torrent of complex emotions that can overwhelm even the most composed individuals, obscuring rational thought. In such moments, it is common to seek counsel from friends and family, whose well-meaning advice may be colored by their personal emotions and biases. However, a more objective perspective is often necessary to navigate the intricacies of this life-altering decision.
Engaging the services of a Divorce Consultant, offers the invaluable advantage of impartial guidance from a professional well-versed in the divorce process. We can provide the clarity needed to assess one's desires and intentions regarding divorce, offering strategies to explore alternatives and evaluate the potential outcomes with informed deliberation.
Contrary to popular misconception, consulting a pre-divorce consultant does not necessarily precipitate divorce. Rather, it serves as a proactive step towards gaining clarity and understanding the emotional and practical implications of such a significant life transition. We are experts at facilitating introspection and helping individuals articulate their needs and desires while preparing them for the emotional journey ahead.
Where We Excel
Decision Clarity: Our consultations facilitate candid discussions aimed at providing a comprehensive evaluation of your current circumstances. We consider the physical, emotional, and financial aspects involved, helping you discern whether divorce represents the most suitable path forward or if alternative avenues merit exploration.
Emotional Preparation: Recognizing the emotional complexities inherent in divorce, we offer invaluable support to navigate this terrain effectively. By sharing insights and coping strategies, we empower you to manage your emotions constructively, fostering resilience throughout the process.
Understanding the Process: Our divorce consultants guide you through the multifaceted stages of separation and divorce, offering clarity on both the practical steps and emotional complexities involved. Armed with this knowledge, you can approach the process with confidence and composure.
Rational Guidance: Amid heightened emotions, having a rational voice to provide objective advice is crucial. As trusted confidants, our consultants offer reasoned perspectives and strategies to mitigate impulsive decisions that may undermine the prospect of an amicable separation.
Practical Support: From logistical challenges to financial considerations, navigating the practical aspects of divorce can be daunting. We provide assistance in organizing your affairs and prioritizing tasks, alleviating the burden of managing these complexities alone.
Planning Strategy: Thoroughly assessing your unique situation, including financial assets, custody arrangements, and other relevant factors, we develop a customized strategy tailored to your specific needs and goals within the legal framework.
Divorce Negotiation: As skilled consultants, we identify potential obstacles in divorce negotiations and develop creative solutions to overcome them. Our aim is to foster a more amicable resolution for you, addressing complex issues and disagreements effectively.
Network and Resources: Leveraging our network of professionals, including family law attorneys, financial advisors, and therapists, we provide comprehensive support to ensure you receive the best possible guidance and strengthen your negotiation position.
Focus on Long-Term Goals: While addressing immediate concerns is essential, we also consider the long-term implications of any agreements reached during the divorce process. This ensures decisions align with your future financial security and overall well-being.
DCI Divorce Consultant & Strategist Role
Our role as Divorce Consultants & Strategists extends beyond mere support; it encompasses knowledge, expertise, empowerment, guidance, and practical assistance tailored to facilitate a smoother transition through one of life's most challenging experiences. By leveraging our expertise and objectivity, you can navigate divorce with greater confidence and clarity, laying the groundwork for a more harmonious post-divorce relationship, whether as co-parents or ex-partners.
Essential Pre Planning Steps
Consult with DCI
First Step in the process - a consultation with your DCI Divorce Consultant (and team). We get to know you, your unique circumstances and develop a tentative game plan for moving forward.